learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play better than anyone else.

Are You a Shy Person? Then Business Networking Is For You!

2009-12-02T10:35:00.001+07:00

If you are in a business that requires someone to buy a product or service, you obviously possess a certain level of self-confidence when dealing with people, or else you would be doing something different. So, even if you are not the most outgoing person around, you are capable of creating good relationships and expressing your ideas.

In order to be a good networker you must be a good listener, and shy people are just that. Normally, extroverted people lose themselves in their talk and do not give space to others to express themselves. You are not the only shy person out there, and all of you can still count on business networking as one of the best ways to promote your company.

You may think that because you are a shy person you are not good at starting conversations, when in reality, shy people are the best in the aspect of networking that is vital for creating meaningful relationships.

You see, there are two sides to networking. First, you meet people and you tell them about yourself. Here is where the extrovert can be better than you; however, here comes the second part, listening to the other person. Extroverts love talking about themselves, but introverts excel at listening and asking questions.

Have you heard the proverb: ‘God gave you two ears and one mouth so you can listen more than you talk’? Good networking is about asking questions and getting to know the other, because once you know him or her, it becomes very easy to meet their needs.

Thus, if you are a shy person, that is not an excuse anymore. If it is difficult for you, there are many techniques to help you get started. For example, if you just feel you can’t walk up to someone at a business networking meeting and introduce yourself, volunteer as an ambassador for that event, in that case, it is very natural for you to approach people to welcome them and say who you are. In no time you will be enjoying a conversation with many of the attendees.

You can really learn to network, no matter how social you are. There are zillions of training seminars and workshops to teach you how to network the right way, and once you learn how to overcome your shyness in a comfortable way, your confidence will grow and you will be meeting people and networking the night away!

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The Holidays-A Time to Get To Work…

2009-12-02T10:31:00.001+07:00

While most of us are busy getting ready for the holidays, whether that includes traveling to visit family or making plans to entertain friends at home, we might want to make the most of the time we have now and do something a little different, like focus on ourselves. We tend to busy ourselves with plans that usually involve helping and taking care of others. In all that entails, we should remember to take the time and attention to tend to ourselves. If we don’t, we can’t always expect others to jump in and to help out when we need them.

Whether you are secure in your current work situation, or taking a break from your grueling job search, remember that now is the time to reflect on what it is you want and to develop the plans and strategies that will help you to succeed in the coming months. Making excuses that you are too busy, the holidays are upon us you have to much to do, is not productive and will set you behind schedule. Now is the time to get to work, literally, on the one project that matters most, you. Okay, if you are really into “To Do” lists, then here’s one that you might find helpful as you tackle your most important project this holiday season-you.

Make time to focus on the future. Take an hour out of your day, preferably right after you wake up in the morning and are refreshed, to visualize your dream job, your dream house, how much money you’ll be making, the success of a professional project, how you look, feel, act. Play this visualization game as often as you can and really start to feel and believe the future you are about to create.
Take time to nurture your physical self. Whether it’s a long walk, a swim, a run or just stretching your body on the floor of your living room, make the healthy choice to take care of your body the way you do your mind and your soul. No doubt whether you have a job or are looking for one, you are under a tremendous amount of stress. This is a time to unwind and physically allow the changes to occur. You can help yourself along by just staying in touch with your physical self and doing things that feel good to you.
Make a list of your dream job. Even if you are in one or are looking for one, take some time and write out what it is you are looking for and what you hope to find in your perfect work situation. Focus on how your perfect job will make you feel and imagine your day and what you will be able to accomplish if you were truly happy and content in your everyday work life. Knowing what you specifically want is as much a part of finding the perfect job then preparing your resume or rehearsing for a job interview.
Make a list of contacts that could help you in your quest for the perfect job. It might include people not in your immediate “professional” circle. Think of those people in your life who are successful or who seem to embrace the life that you would like to live if you had the money, time and resources. Write a a script on how you might ask them for help. It might include, “I’ve always admired the way you manage your time and the way you seem to attract the right opportunities to you. How would you suggest I develop those same skills? …” Go ahead, ask for help, people actually do like extending themselves, or at the very least, they like to hear themselves talk!
Create a timeline. After you have created your “To Do” list, make sure you can measure your success. Put timelines next to each goal so that you can keep track of your progress towards finding the perfect job. This should not include unrealistic dates, like I’m going to find the perfect job by Monday. You should look to add realistic goals and timelines and not ones that add pressure or you won’t stick to. Remember you are in control and you can change your timelines any time you’d like.

Holidays are a time of reflection and for quieting and slowing down. When you are ready to embark on a big life change, like finding a new job or leaving an old one, you need to slow down almost to a halt before you can switch gears and make forward movement again. This can be scary but think of the alternative, being stuck when another force comes charging towards you and forces you to change when you are not ready. Being prepared and making time for yourself in the midst of making time for everyone else is the single most important thing you can do for you. Make the most out of the holidays and get to work on you.

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the way I are

2008-04-17T10:07:00.002+07:00

ketika aku pasang status : The way I are. tiba2 ada yang nanya gini...

Jodhi Kurniawan: kenapa bukan the way I am?
Abdullah Azizul: haha
Abdullah Azizul: beda lagu bos
Abdullah Azizul: kalo the way i am lagu
Abdullah Azizul: lagunya eminem
Jodhi Kurniawan: kalau the way I are....lagunya siapa? merpati band?
Abdullah Azizul: haha
Abdullah Azizul: lagunya timbaland
Jodhi Kurniawan: ic ic
Jodhi Kurniawan: generasi hip hop ga mikirin grammar
Abdullah Azizul: haha

no comment lah ya :P.

emulator network

2008-01-13T08:54:00.000+07:00

berikut beberapa emulator untuk networking :
1. vnuml, udah coba.linux based. ringan dan simple.
2. netkit, linux based, ada graphicnya tapi blom pernah coba.
3. imunes. freebsd based. hm.... kayaknya menarik untuk dicoba.

untuk simulator :
1. Netbed / Emulab - THE distributed network testbed (University of Utah)
2. EMPOWER - Another distributed network emulator (Michigan State University)
3. Modelnet - Source-routed static network topology emulator (Duke)
4. Harvard / NCTUns Network Simulator (NCTU Taiwan)
5. VINT - Virtual InterNetwork Testbed based on NS (USC / ISI)
6. Alpine - Application-Level Protocol Infrastructure for Network Experimentation (University of Washington)

VNUML

2008-01-13T06:21:00.000+07:00

ketika browsing2 ternyata nemu software vnuml (virtual network user mode linux). software yang menurut saya bagus untuk simulasi network dalam ukuran besar. berapa besar? aku liat di contoh skenario ospfnya ada sejumlah 52 virtual linux, wewww.... anda bisa pake untuk simulasi routing pake quagga, dns server, simulasi dengan dynamips,dan masih banyak yang bisa diimplementasikan dengan software ini, karena anda bisa nambah aplikasi di filesystemnya. so bagaimana cara memulai ? coba buka instalasinya di sini, buat anda yang kurang terbiasa dengan linux, ada baiknya pake ubuntu (ditambah tutorial ini). dijamin ga pake mikir deh, tinggal apt-get semua :D. buat anda yang pake XenU virtual machine, selamat berpusing ria (kayaknya blom ada yang berhasil :P).
cara kerja vnuml seperti halnya vmware, qemu atau virtual machine yang lain. namun filesystemnya cuma satu dan dipakai untuk semua virtual host. jika anda perlu menambahkan atau merubah aplikasi di filesystem. anda bisa menge-mount dulu. contohnya dibawah ini, karena saya pusing untuk ngetik password defaultnya, yaitu xxxx (duh gara2 ngetik xxxx berulang kali, jari manismu yang kiri ampe sakit :(). akhirnya saya memutuskan untuk menggantinya dengan password yang lebih manusiawi dan mempekerjakan jari dengan distribusi merata (ga penting :P).

root@azi-laptop:~# mount -o loop /usr/share/vnuml/filesystems/root_fs_tutorial /mnt/
root@azi-laptop:~# chroot /mnt/
root@azi-laptop:/# passwd
Enter new UNIX password:
Retype new UNIX password:
passwd: password updated successfully
root@azi-laptop:/# exit
exit
root@azi-laptop:~# umount /mnt/

jadi perlakukan vnuml selayaknya anda memperlakukan unix biasa. anda bisa apt-get atau make install dengan sesuka hati. dia bukan tipe virtual machine yang pake filesystem .vmdk atau konco2nya. jadi bener2 linux didalam linux. eh kira2 ada yang buat freebsd ga ya ? :P

Gambar-gambar hiasan....

2007-12-29T14:26:00.000+07:00

maaf kalau disebalah kanan ada gambar-gambar hiasan yang mengganggu pemandangan anda :D. bukan tujuannya untuk narsis atau apa, aku cuma meniru gaya anak-anak sekarang kok. aku kan anak anak baik, sopan, dan tidak sombong, serta rajin menabung. hwe hehehe....

skenario training firewall

2007-12-02T09:38:00.000+07:00

mungkin akan berguna untuk orang lain. ini adalah salah satu lab training firewall untuk univ unsoed. tepatnya seminggu kemarin dicomlabs. sebenarnya pingin ngajar, tapi hari rabu pagi musti berangkat ke balikpapan :(. jadi nggak enak ama temen2 trainer yang lain.

ngomong-ngomong, supaya training anda berjalan sebaik mungkin, anda harus mempersiapkan default configuration untuk setiap peserta. jadi beberapa hari sebelum training musti nyiapin semua, termasuk vmware. yah... biar keliatan profesional dikitlah.

deskripsi :
tiap POD berjalan dikomputer p4, mem 1 G, menggunakan vmware 5.5, 2 operating system freebsd + 1 XP.

Terdampar di pulau kayangan

2007-11-20T08:57:00.000+07:00

wow pantai Losari-nya ga kliatan. sori mas-mas, bukan aku meniatkan diri telat meeting, tapi karena perahunya telat datang, mo gimana lagi coba (he he he.. alasan doang keknya... :P )

bagus tak ?

ini jaraknya sekitar 0,5 m dari permukaan air. jernih banget kan ?? sebenarnya bisa moto yang lebih dalam, masalahnya aku ga berani ke tengah. ga bisa renang euy... :D

sapa ya ??

2007-11-20T08:25:00.000+07:00

Bukan sapa-sapa kok, yang pasti aku ga bakat masalah nulis-menulis dan curhat-curhatan. cuma dikit-dikit, mengingat dulu kan pernah jadi wartawan kropel. waktu itu tahun 97-an kali ya..,masa-masa aku masih masih pake celana pendek warna biru :)).
nanggap guru-guru atau osis-osis pake title wartawan pelajar. hwuhehe.... nulisnya musti pake bahasa gaul, sampai-sampai keterusan pas bahasa indonesia... ah so sweetlah pokoknya

hi....

2007-11-20T07:21:00.000+07:00

halo semua !!!!
ngomong opo enak e rek!!!!
ada request ??:D
cuap2, malesse.
kalah sama blog-blog lain, sungguh menggunung.kyk buku diary pindah aja :))
minder aku rek!!
santai nanti tak saingi, he he he tunggu tanggal maennya.
masse iki jek sibuk (sibuk dolek kesibukan :P).